Marriage

My answer to someone’s question today, made me realize that when contemplating marriage, my potential husband isn’t the only thing I’m considering. This is a little surprising because I always thought if the guy was everything I needed and wanted then there wouldn’t be anything else that would stop me. (considering it was the right time etc.)

Yet, there are other factors at play that immediately turn me off despite everything else being where it needs to be.

It’s disheartening, and a little terrifying. Then again I can’t even see this is my future anymore so why worry about it now.